if there one thing we all have in common with, losing a person in death and much false information is out there about your dead loved ones, and I want to tell the truth base from the bible, it has great information and I really think you will thoroughly enjoy it and you will feel better about your dead loved ones. the book is called “The Truth That Leads to Eternal Life” and the chapter is entitled “Where Are the Dead?” here is the link: https://wol.jw.org/en/wol/d/r1/lp-e/1101968005?q=condition+of+the+died&p=par I encouraged you to use your copy of the bible and read every scripture.